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2022.01.27 13:45 aconsciouscrisis Trying to “read” and understand my husband. What’s wrong here?

So I’m the one in treatment and trying to ACTIVELY work on and heal from my Cluster B traits. I’ve gotten Borderline, Covert, and codependent “diagnosis” from my different therapists. If you read my last post, you’ll see that I identify most strongly with covert based on my experience with mortification. I’m scheduled for full day of neuropsychological testing to get an actual diagnosis next week.
Anyway, I’m trying to better understand my husband since he has problems of his own. Anytime I talk about him on forums, everyone says he sounds antisocial or avoidant or narcissistic himself. Even so, he can be sweet with me at times. Seems like it has to involve sex though. We can never just hug, or just kiss. It ALWAYS has to involve sex. And if I don’t want to, he gets resentful, very hurt and humiliated, or gives me the silent treatment.
What I’m trying to work on now is his communication with me. He refuses to tell me if something is bothering him and instead will go for several days not talking to me. I have to to pester him to tell me what’s wrong when I realize he is shutting down. I recognize this might be seen as me “trying to reel him back in”, but also it’s hurtful to not have any sort of communication with my own husband.
A few days ago we got in a big blowout because I confronted him for trying to have sex with me while I was sleeping. I take antipsychotics which are extremely strong, like I’m drugged, and I can’t consent. He swore he didn’t do anything and said “I don’t remember, maybe I was sleeping too.” When I got upset and stated to cry, he slammed the door and left and we haven’t really talked since. I sent him a long apology text for making him feel uncomfortable and the only thing he responded with is “it’s fine”.
Last night when I brought how he had been ignoring me, he said he didn’t want to talk about it. He had too much resentment towards me and would prefer not to argue. I told him I didn’t want to argue either, but what we are doing isn’t healthy, living under one roof as strangers and not talking.
He said he is tired of talking and by now it should be implied what is wrong. He said lately it feels like all I’m doing is working on myself and he isn’t a priority. He said I come home late, I don’t go to sleep with him at the same time, I don’t help extra around the house when he works ten hour days, and he just feels like a second option.
(Backstory, we briefly split up during my psychotic break. I’m trying to build my own sense of self so I do my own therapy 2x a week, I go to art class 1x a week, and I see a friend 1x a week)
I told him, “I’m sorry you feel like you’re a second choice, but working on myself is going to help us work on us. I have no excuse for the house work, I know I could help more (I’m unemployed right now) but I feel like you don’t voice any of these things. You tell me don’t have needs and yet here you are telling me everything you want an need.”
He was crying and said, “I shouldn’t have to tell you stuff. You should just know. We’ve been together five years and it should be implied. If I’m working long hours, you help more. If I say I like when you come to bed at the same time as me, you come to bed.”
I said, “you’re right, you have said those things, but it doesn’t mean I always have to do them or should know to do them. Just because you like when I go to bed with you at 8pm doesn’t mean I have to. It doesn’t mean I love you less, but I don’t get up at 4am and I don’t have to go to sleep as early.”
He said, “you ignoring my request to clean the dishes is just as bad as me ignoring your request not to grope you.”
(I didn’t necessarily agree with this but I acknowledged his comment.)
I said, “I’m sorry I haven’t always respected what you’ve asked, I’m actively working on it. I have a lot to work on, I know. I’m reading everyday about narcissism and codependency (he isn’t) and believe it or not, that’s helping this marriage. I think this argument went a lot better than most.” (Normally I would have cried and denied everything he said or projected or played victim)
We hugged, And he asked if I would come to bed with him. I took my medication (that makes me tired) and I fell asleep on his chest. I woke up to him jacking off. I felt guilty, and he asked if I could make him finish. I tried, but I was literally falling asleep. I could tell he was frustrated with me.
Idk. I know I’m in the wrong and maybe this is just my ego talking but should I really be expected to read his mind? Why can’t he just talk to me? Why do I ALWAYS have to get the communication out of him. Is it because I don’t like when he’s mad at me? Is it okay for someone to just ignore the other for three or four days? Obviously no one person has to be to blame, but I’m starting to feel like this isn’t going to get better.
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2022.01.27 13:45 HLW10 What species is this cactus?

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2022.01.27 13:45 slinkeycuteferrets There was someone here that hates their username I forgot who but I may have useful advice but if anyone else hates their username to then you ig can look

You can't change you name in reddit so you would have to delete your account or never use it and make your new account with the username you want but if you have friends on reddit write their username down find them again on your new account also you should probably write your old username to tell them that it's you I didn't test any of this lol but I think it would work at least the part before I was talking about friends that some may have on reddit
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2022.01.27 13:45 realandrew Siralim Ultimate Update 1.0.5 Patch Notes (Official)

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2022.01.27 13:45 IHaveASafeToCrack Not even my halo movement tech videos are safe from shop complaints

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2022.01.27 13:45 Slab_Rockbone Any insight into why Joey Hand isn't a full-time presence in IMSA any longer?

It seems like he disappeared after the factory Ford GT program stopped and has bounced around a few series like DTM and part-time Nascar gigs. Why does a driver of his caliber not have a full-time drive in IMSA?
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2022.01.27 13:45 jp9mm Quick Reate Family Photo

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2022.01.27 13:45 LettuceEntertainu It's all over except for the crying for TMC

The market is dismantling weak de-SPAC companies and sending them to an early grave. TMC is prime pickings for the hedge funds and dark pools behind this trading activity. You were warned over and over at 8,7,6,5,4,3,2... It's all over but the crying for TMC.
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2022.01.27 13:45 Used-Committee-4596 Davvero

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2022.01.27 13:45 Marmorexx GSI Green Cube under construction

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2022.01.27 13:45 timkandykaine What’s the easiest money you ever made

One time a drunk man asked me for a fountain iced tea which costs 2 dollars. He paid with a 10 and insisted I keep the change. I wasn’t going to charge him anyway so I simply never rang it up
Also he knew how much he was paying because he was trying to impress some women. This isn’t me taking advantage of a drunk guy. I did however technically steal from my piece of shit boss
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2022.01.27 13:45 pwuminhere Should I drop out? (2nd bachelor's)

For background, i have a bachelor's in psych and am going back for a 2nd bachelor's in cs. i took lower division cs courses at a cc and transferred back to my old university. i was supposed to graduate 06/2023, but due to some class scheduling conflict, it's now pushed back to 04/2024. since being back, i felt like it's a waste of time having to take useless classes that won't help with my career. i just don't like that my graduation will be delayed by another year. i've been thinking about just dropping out and finding a full time job. i do have a swe internship lined up for summer 2022, so if i do drop out, it will be after. am i being overly optimistic that this will work or should i just stay with getting a 2nd bachelor's? any advice is great!
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2022.01.27 13:45 smarty_skirts Colorverse Psc: My sample looks so different from online. Can anyone confirm it is a brighter green?

I got a sample from Goulet of Colorverse Psc and love it - it's a bright green on every paper I try it on. However, the sample at Goulet makes it look like a light sage color. If you have the full bottle, do you mind sharing with me whether you think it's a bright green or a sage? Thanks in advance.
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2022.01.27 13:45 lainisokay WTT Asia Server ar 57 24x5 (dead psn)

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2022.01.27 13:45 aSimpleTraveler We All Should be Opposed to Indoctrination: A CRT Ban is Silly, As is Saying CRT is the best way to view the world. Education should be about variety and vigorous debate.

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2022.01.27 13:45 idealjuicy In which language have you discovered Spongebob ?

I am from Belgium and watched all the episodes of the first 5 seasons in French, as a kid
Recently I've rewatched all these episodes I used to watch on Nickelodeon FR, but this time in English, and I think English version is better in general (especially in "Pickles", my all time favorite episode)
And you ?
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2022.01.27 13:45 Great_Ad9147 Looking for new Granger 3600LX on Bennys. Will give 3 cars from my garages.

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2022.01.27 13:45 Prestigious-Tank-714 LOL you just cant make it up

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2022.01.27 13:45 Present_Orchid_1418 Layer 2

Hi, Am still learning about crypto and have noticed that the coins that do well are Layer 1’s. AllianceBlock is a Layer 2. I still like the project though, but am now rethinking the price it could possibly get to. Does anyone know any coins that have done well at least reaching $20 that are layer 2’s?
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2022.01.27 13:45 itayrniroiw What does driving an E30 say about you?

What’s may be other people opinions of the car, or is it just a old turd?
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2022.01.27 13:45 Zahnymous Definition of Cute

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2022.01.27 13:45 stychotics did a bopis with some coupons!

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2022.01.27 13:45 Walmart_Pole_Epic My cat sitting like Al Bundy

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